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Unconditional love is the secret of a successful relationship

Saturday August 03, 2019 03:00 AM To Tuesday December 31, 2019 04:00 AM

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What is unconditional love?
 
Unconditional love is so different from what we are used to receiving, in our friendly and loving relationships, that most of us do not even know what it is. Indeed, nowadays, what we call "love" is often a simple reflection of the passion, affection, co-dependence or self-centered need that one person feels for another.
The truth is that true love is rare and unique. You know that you have found true unconditional love if you feel completely understood, seen, accepted and loved as you are. This feeling is the most liberating feeling you will ever have the opportunity to feel!
 
Definition of unconditional love
To put it simply, unconditional love means that you love a person without any conditions and without expecting anything in return. Whatever your partner says, does, thinks or believes, you love him and accept who he is. This love is not reserved for romantic relationships. It can, too, relate to animals, friends, family and, above all, yourself!
 
The more you are able to love yourself unconditionally, the more likely you are to love others in the same way. When you love someone without seeking to benefit you, you are on the path to a pure and healthy relationship.
 
We often make the mistake of comparing maternal love to unconditional love. Yet it's very different! The feelings that bind a parent to his child stem from the family connection (and most of the time blood) while conditional love is given to a person who has been chosen.
In a romantic setting, this can sometimes be difficult to maintain. For example, when the person you love unconditionally is an alcoholic or a gambler, you are aware that this relationship can not last because it is unhealthy for you. For unconditional love to remain, mutual respect is needed. If your partner adopts an attitude like "she loves me, she will support everything I do," your couple will not resist!
 
Difference between conditional love and unconditional love
 
What makes it different from conditional love? As their names indicate, these two terms are completely opposite. Moreover, conditional love is not really love since it finds its source in the ego and not the heart.
 
Unlike unconditional love, conditional love must be earned. And, only once your partner has decided that you have received the right to be loved will he show affection, respect and kindness. This love is restrictive and limited and it is given only if the person in question first received something: "I will only love you if ..."!
Conditional love is born in an environment of selfishness and egotism. But, it can only last if certain rules are respected. For example: "I will love you if you stay beautiful", "I will love you if you cook well", "I will love you if you have a lot of money" etc ... In short, it is the recipe for an absolutely miserable relationship!
 
How to love unconditionally?
To love unconditionally, there are some rules to follow:
 
1. Communicate openly to meet the needs of both partners.
 
2. Do not steer. Do not communicate defensively, rather express your feelings and take the time to understand those of your partner.
 
3. Do not let the small obstacles of life shake your love. In your commitment to love, you must be able to let some things slip and not take everything to heart.
 
4. In your relationship, share the power! Your partner (or you) can not have the controls in your hands. You must make important decisions together and respect each other's choices.
 
5. Accept unconditional love as a behavior and not a feeling. You want to act in such a way as to make the other happy, without taking into account the benefits that you can draw. It is an act of pure generosity.
6. Ask yourself, do I act selflessly with this person? ". Choose sincerity and do not let your ego take over. You must be as true as possible.
 
7. Learn to forgive. When you have been hurt, you sometimes have trouble forgiving. Especially, if the other shows no sign of remorse. Yet, when love is unconditional, one must make the effort
 
Why is there so much need for unconditional love
Unconditional love is at the heart of everything we seek, as human beings. Not only is it essential for our physical, mental and psychological health but it is also essential for our spiritual well-being. If you are not able to find in you the purity of love, you will be satisfied with relations only tinged with affection and selfish gratification.
 
The mistake many of us make is to believe that this love is outside, in certain people, places, or animals. We forget to look for him deep within us. Like plants that do not get enough water, without it, we become dull and sad and we even start to disappear.
This desperation leads us to start relationships with the wrong people at the cost of many sacrifices. The most important being our happiness!
 
Yet some people consider that unconditional love is not a balanced love since we give without expecting anything in return and sometimes without ever receiving anything. But, is not that the goal? Be generous and loving with your partner, give him affection and respect to the point of submerging him with positive feelings.
So even if, in the beginning, he does not like you in the same way, seeing you act in this way, he will want to return the favor by filling you with happiness. The definition of unconditional love can vary from one person to another, but the goal is always the same: to love in the purest way!
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What is unconditional love?
 
Unconditional love is so different from what we are used to receiving, in our friendly and loving relationships, that most of us do not even know what it is. Indeed, nowadays, what we call "love" is often a simple reflection of the passion, affection, <a href="https://www.podcasts.com/10-things-every-wife-needs-to-do-for-her-husband-675ed1fd0/episode/Ways-To-Make-Your-Long-Term-Marriage-Happier-9678">co-dependence or self-centered</a>co-dependence or self-centered need that one person feels for another.
 
The truth is that true love is rare and unique. You know that you have found true unconditional love if you feel completely understood, seen, accepted and loved as you are. This feeling is the most liberating feeling you will ever have the opportunity to feel!
 
Definition of unconditional love
 
 
To put it simply, unconditional love means that you love a person without any conditions and without expecting anything in return. Whatever your partner says, does, thinks or believes, you love him and accept who he is. This love is not reserved for romantic relationships. It can, too, relate to animals, friends, family and, above all, yourself!
 
The more you are able to love yourself unconditionally, the more likely you are to love others in the same way. When you love someone without seeking to benefit you, you are on the path to a pure and healthy relationship.
 
We often make the mistake of <a href="http://romance.mystrikingly.com/">comparing maternal</a>comparing maternal love to unconditional love. Yet it's very different! The feelings that bind a parent to his child stem from the family connection (and most of the time blood) while conditional love is given to a person who has been chosen.
 
In a romantic setting, this can sometimes be difficult to maintain. For example, when the person you love unconditionally is an alcoholic or a gambler, you are aware that this relationship can not last because it is unhealthy for you. For unconditional love to remain, mutual respect is needed. If your partner adopts an attitude like "she loves me, she will support everything I do," your couple will not resist!
 
Difference between conditional love and unconditional love
 
What makes it different from conditional love? As their names indicate, these two terms are completely opposite. Moreover, conditional love is not really love since it finds its source in the ego and not the heart.
 
Unlike unconditional love, conditional love must be earned. And, only once your partner has decided that you have received the right to be loved will he show affection, respect and kindness. This love is restrictive and limited and it is given only if the person in question first received something: "I will only love you if ..."!
 
Conditional love is born in an environment of selfishness and egotism. But, it can only last if certain rules are respected. For example: "I will love you if you stay beautiful", "I will love you if you cook well", "I will love you if you have a lot of money" etc ... In short, it is the recipe for an absolutely miserable relationship!
 
How to love unconditionally?
 
To love unconditionally, there are some rules to follow:
 
1. Communicate openly to meet the needs of both partners.
 
2. Do not steer. Do not <a href="https://luisaluisachilburn.wixsite.com/monsite/post/first-meeting-with-his-ex-the-keys-to-success">communicate defensively</a>, rather express your feelings and take the time to understand those of your partner.
 
3. Do not let the small obstacles of life shake your love. In your commitment to love, you must be able to let some things slip and not take everything to heart.
 
4. In your relationship, share the power! Your partner (or you) can not have the controls in your hands. You must make important decisions together and respect each other's choices.
 
5. Accept unconditional love as a behavior and not a feeling. You want to act in such a way as to make the other happy, without taking into account the benefits that you can draw. It is an act of pure generosity.
 
6. Ask yourself, do I act selflessly with this person? ". Choose sincerity and do not let your ego take over. You must be as <a href="https://healthyrelationships.splashthat.com/">true as possible</a>.
 
7. Learn to forgive. When you have been hurt, you sometimes have trouble forgiving. Especially, if the other shows no sign of remorse. Yet, when love is unconditional, one must make the effort.
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Start Date: 2019-08-03 03:00:00
End Date: 2019-12-31 04:00:00